今天，一名记者打电话与我交流，关于再起孩子参加各种选“秀”评选的看法。这引起了我对这件事的深思。的确，现在在各种选“秀”中时常出现七八岁的孩子的身影，他（她）们也与成人一样身穿各种服装，表演着成人的舞蹈、唱着成人的歌曲、说着成人的语言，如果不是听到介绍他们的年龄，看到他们的身高，还以为自己看错了。因为他们的一举一动，都太成人话了，作为一名教育者我在思考，他们本应是快乐的小鸟的年龄，却变成了一个个小大人。他们究竟得到了什么？又失去了什么呢？
他们得到了人们的掌声、鲜花，得到了人们赞许的目光，得到了各种各样的奖励，得到了他们这个年龄本不应该属于他们的一切。或是，他们又失去了什么呢？我想他们失去了这个年龄应该尽情享受童年的快乐，失去了孩子的童真，失去了他们灿烂的笑容，失去了他们的玩心。我想主要有以下几个原因。一家长过于追求功利思想，把自己没有实现的理解强加给他们，拔苗助长促其速成。二孩子自身表现欲过强，有些孩子有着极高地表演天赋，他们会自然不自然地表现出比其他孩子的优势。三各种演出组织者利用家长让孩子速成的心理，推波助澜竭力造势。四家长都抱有一夜暴富，一夜成名的侥幸心理。
我们回头想一想他们一定就能成就成名、成星之路吗？他们在得到的同时，又失去了什么？恐怕没有人都去关注。这也许就是一种社会悲哀吧。
Today, a reporter made a phone call to communicate with me, concerning rose again a kid to attend various viewpoint that choose"show"ed to judge and decide.This caused my deep thought to this matter.Really, now in various figure that choose"show" China Times to often appear a 78-year-old kid, he(she) also wear various clothing with adult's similar body, perform an adult of choreographic,sing the adult's song and say the adult's language, if isn't the age that hears introduce them, see their height, also thinks the oneself see wrong.Because their each and every move, all too adult's words, conduct and actions an education I am in the thinking, they should be the age of the happy young bird, but become a young adult originally.What did they get actually?Lost again what?
They got people's applause,fresh flowers, getting people to endorse of vision, get the reward of various each kind, getting their this age shouldn'ted belong to their everything originally.Or, what did they lose again?I think their losing this age should enjoy the happiness of the childhood heartily, losing the kid's true, lose them brilliant of smiling face, lose them to play heart.I want to mainly have a few reason as follows.A parent pursues the utility thought too, carrying out the oneself of the comprehension is strong to add to them, pulling out the seedling furtherance it hurriedly.Two kid's oneself performance desire lead strong, some kids have the pole highland to perform natural endowments, they don't naturally would be natural to express the advantage that compares other kids.Three various performance organizers make use of a parent to let hurriedly mental state of kid, push wave to help to make greatest efforts to build power.Four parents all embrace for a night sudden wealth, become famous for a night of by luck mental.
We turn head to consider them certain can achieve establish a reputation and become the road of the star?They at the time of get, and then lose what?Perhaps no one pay attention to.This is a kind of society perhaps sorrow.
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